CHASING AFTER THE WIND! (Must have book!)
In a brutally honest account Kerryn Redpath describes the terrifying scenes she witnessed as what began as "a bit of fun" spiralled into a shocking journey through the dark world of drug addiction. Chilling stories of drug overdoses, precious lives lost, drug and alcohol fuelled fights, months spent gravely ill in hospital, at one point being given less than two hours to live, will have the reader gripped to every page….This is a compelling story that takes the reader through one person’s journey from the depths of despair to the realms of hope and is hard to put down until the final page is read.
“This is a story that should be read by all - young and old, parents, teenagers and current or past addicts of all persuasions.” - Associate Professor Peter Ryan
There's No Way of Saying No
Without Getting Bagged Out!
Is it possible is say 'no' to alcohol in this binge culture? Can the booze bully culture be slowed? 'Not really' is often the timid whimper of the peer pressured soul who is trying to 'fit in'. Out of this so called 'intimidating and seductive' cultural norm came the mantra 'kids will always drink, they experiment, cant stop it.' Now we know that is a well held and until recently strongly reinforced 'MYTH' in the halls of drug policy. However, we've known for decades, that it is not only possilbe, but actually pretty easy to say 'no thanks' and walk away. We also know that there is a couple of key things you need in place to help you do that. Any idea what they might be? Hmmmm... you're clever, you'll figure it out...just a hint, it's got more to do with your family, values and moral compass than you think
Anyway, Somazone did a recent survey to check to see if the 'just say no' response had any cred... turns out it did! Who knew?! Well we did, but its not polite to 'i told you so', so we we won't say it... 'I told you so' that is.
Sometimes we tell them to “just say no”. But does that work? What do young people say, and is it effective? We ran a poll* on our youth website, Somazone, to ask just that: If you’ve ever said no to an offer of alcohol, what kind of line has worked best?
Booze and teenagers
(Prof John Toumbourou puts the Myths to Bed)
Assumption One: 'It's hypocritical to not let my drink when you were drinking at my age!'
We are a lot better educated these days about he dangers of drinking, just like cigarettes smoking and not wearing seat-belts. We know all those things now are really risky and we wouldn't encourage them. So we're not being hypocritical, it's just that we're better informed.
Assumption Two: 'Kids mature physcially and mentally at different ages, so some are ready to handle alcohol at 16.'
Based on the matuity argument, the legal drinking age should be lifted to 21 because the brain develops into young adulthood. The brain isn't really ready for alcohol at 18...rules are rules and some of those rules are set by age.
Assumption Three: 'Alcohol is safe for kids ages 16+ when drunk in moderation.'
"INCORRECT! Recent Victorian studes show many 16-17 year olds who drink in moderation devleop alcohol problems in thier early 20's. Other research showe young drinkers are more vulnerable to the changes in brain structure caused by alcohol. These changes increase tolerance for alcohol, leading to increased intake and greater desire to drink in later life. They often develop a greater thirst for alcohol when they become adapted to it, but it's having a much greater destructive effect than it does on adults. The young person's brain is still developing and it's vulnerable to poisons."
Assumption Four: 'Parents will know what and how much their teenager is drinking if they supply the alcohol.'
"Teens given alcohol by parents are more likely to use theise drinks to kick off a binge. Young people tell us they drink the alcohol thier parents supply and then they drink other alcohol outside the parent's watch because the goal of drinking at that age isn't to drink moderately, it's to become intoxicated. Parents who refuse to supply alcohol have more succes in curbing thier child's drinking...So where parents set a hardline and refuse to supply alcohol, often the children rebel by drinking once or twice behond their back. With the partnes who allow alcohol the child has to come home absolutely smashed in order to rebel."
Assumption Five: 'Drinking helps you fit in, is fun and gives you more confidence.'
"Kids don't need alcohol to have a good time and fit in, despite impressions created by alcohol marketing. Kds who don't drink perform better at school and develop stronger social and emotional skills, whole those who drink become more dependent on alcohol for their enjoyment. Oftne when they reach their 20's they're absolutely dependent on alcoho to have any fun. That's why alcohol dependence is so high at the moment in young adults. Bluff and bravado around drinking gives teens the impression all their peers are doing it. But in reality more health-conscious kids in early secondary school are choosing not to drink and are relieved when their parents set a 'no alcohol' rule.'
(Hearlad Sun, Monday March 5th 2012)